Parents of young children have many questions regarding the upbringing of their children. Given the experience of the professionals that make up the staff of Logos Nursery School nursery school in Las Rozas, we are aware of the doubts and the complex task ahead of them.
Be that as it may, raising a happy and fulfilled child is not only complex, it is also satisfying, one of life's most enriching acts.
Write down these tips for parents of young children
In order for every parent to have adequate information, our professionals have prepared a series of useful tips to educate in a positive way, stimulating our children from birth.
Self-esteem reinforcement
As babies, toddlers already develop a sense of self. They begin to assimilate their parents' tones of voice, expressions and body language. This has an impact on their upbringing. Therefore, it is important for us as guardians and caregivers to take this into account from birth.
Once children begin to be aware of their environment and their reality, it is key to encourage their proper development, allowing some autonomy appropriate to their age and always reinforcing positive behaviors, avoiding denigrating and, of course, without using physical punishment or insults.
Establishment of limits
The child is happier if he develops in a world with limits that he understands. This is a key maxim in the application of positive discipline that will avoid many tantrums, anger, misunderstandings and power struggles.
Ideally, the child should discover early on how to control himself. This is achieved in a limited environment according to their needs and age, in which their routines and habits prevail.
Home rules, just like school rules, allow children to self-regulate. That's why it's a good idea to set up reward systems that encourage them when they do well, but also penalize them when they don't comply.
Acknowledgments
Too often parents and adults tend to recognize what children do wrong, and forget that their good deeds also deserve such recognition.
If we are constantly pointing out the bad actions of the little ones, it can affect their self-esteem and security. They may end up frustrated thinking that they are not doing anything right, and we know that this is not the case.
We must not forget that the good deeds performed by the little ones are not always their obligation. If everything bad is bad, and everything good is obvious, the child does not understand well and his association is towards negativity.
For all these reasons, when the child behaves correctly, it is worthwhile to receive recognition. Let's not think of financial or physical rewards. In most cases a simple hug, a kind word or a proud pat on the back will suffice.
Quality time
Children enjoy their parents. That's why it's good to have quality time for them. Even if responsibilities and work overwhelm us, it is worth spending some time in the mornings, perhaps during breakfast, and another in the afternoons or evenings, before going to bed, to play with them, have dinner talking animatedly, etc.
A quality relationship with our children is fantastic for them. Not only do they play and have fun, they also feel more participative, talkative, etc. This way, affection is transmitted, the child is better known, etc.
Let's be their model
Young children look to their parents for everything. It makes sense for us to become a role model for them. As our children watch and imitate us, let us be an example of generosity, caring, gratitude, giving back and communication.
The exceptional teaching and pedagogical team that makes up the staff of Logos Nursery School nursery in Las Rozas has many more tips for parents of young children, so that your children develop properly in a safe and appreciable environment.
